Rooted in Creativity
Stephania Bendek ’22 is thriving at Marist University, where she studies fashion design and creates distinctive collections that reflect her creativity. Driven by a passion for sustainability, Stephania integrates natural and recycled materials into her designs.
Her dream of a career in fashion sparked at a young age when she drew a dress form for an assignment in kindergarten about what she wanted to be when she grew up. That dream stayed with her through her time at Forman and when she began to pursue college fashion programs. With invaluable support she received from Forman’s College Counseling Office and former Promethean Program Director Luke Warren, she is on her way to making that longtime dream a reality.
“I didn’t have an understanding of what a fashion portfolio really looked like,” she says. “Mr. Warren helped me put together my portfolio in less than a year, and (Associate Director of College Counseling) Ms. (Jennifier) Garton [Strawson] helped me apply to every college I wanted to. She went above and beyond.”
Before arriving at Forman as a ninth-grader, Stephania had attended 13 schools in search of the right support for her learning difference.
“I had holes in my education from moving around, trying to find somewhere that would accept me for having dyslexia,” she says. “It was making my dyslexia worse, and my confidence was so shaken up.”
Forman helped renew her confidence. “I received so much support from my teachers, the Mans (former Head of School Adam K. Man and Beth Man P’15), (Associate Head of School) Ms. (Allie) Maxwell, and everyone in the Forman community.” Her perspective on having dyslexia also shifted; she now sees it as a gift. “I feel very proud to be dyslexic,” she notes.
Stephania fondly remembers the unique teaching styles at Forman that made learning engaging. One moment that stuck with her was from History and Social Sciences Teacher Scott Brady ’84. “He would walk around the room while teaching,” she says. “One day, I asked him why, and he said, ‘Because it keeps your eyes moving so you stay focused on the lesson.’”
Outside the classroom, Stephania was involved in theater and played volleyball and tennis. Starring in Mamma Mia! was a highlight of her Forman experience, as was her senior Winterim trip to Hawaii. “That trip is one of my favorite memories of my life. It’s one of those things I will never forget,” she says.